Review - BBC Couples Therapy with Dr Orna Guralnik
'Where are you?’
At the wrong moment, maybe bristling with aggression or interpreted in bad faith, this question can rouse a handful of feelings.
I’ve been asked it in relationships and felt badgered, mithered, even a little bit hounded. I’ve asked it of others, and felt downright pathetic.
Of course, there are plenty of times when it’s just a matter of geography: a quick check-in so you know which bollard to wait next to on a blustery afternoon.
At the wrong moment, maybe bristling with aggression or interpreted in bad faith, this question can rouse a handful of feelings.
I’ve been asked it in relationships and felt badgered, mithered, even a little bit hounded. I’ve asked it of others, and felt downright pathetic.
Of course, there are plenty of times when it’s just a matter of geography: a quick check-in so you know which bollard to wait next to on a blustery afternoon.